How to NOT be a Bridezilla

Often times, in the midst of all the chaos, the lovely bride becomes… not so lovely. Although it can be a hassle to choose anything and everything when it comes to weddings, it is definitely common for a bride to become stressed and overworked when her fiancé isn’t really caring about something like the color of napkins on the table. Here are some tips and tricks on how to take a breather and actually enjoy your wedding because after all, it is one of the most important days of your life.

 First things first, it is a big event which means that things will not come easy. Trust me, there will be many obstacles coming your way. However, since you happened to stumble across this blog post this means that you will know it is not the end of the world if something does not go your way.

 1.MINUSCULE DETAILS DO NOT MATTER! Only you are going to notice the small details

of this wedding. Do not spend a lot of time stressing about what way the flowers are

supposed to be arranged or what kind of design will be on the wedding invitations

because at the end of the day no one will pay attention to those details except for you!

So, stick with this motto: Gather, Celebrate, and Inspire. Focus on making it a good time

for everyone and most importantly you and your soon to be husband. 

 2.BE OPEN MINDED!  Accept what others have to say because they are only trying to

help you. It is important to seek other people’s opinions because they might have other

ideas that could truly make things easier for you. Also, be open to the fact that you may

not get exactly what you wanted and that it will work out in the end even if you think your

whole world is crashing down.

 3.MULTICULTURAL MARRIAGES! In this situation, you don’t know how to please your

soon-to-be in laws because of the cultural difference. For example, in an American and

Indian Wedding, they will often have two ceremonies. One for the groom’s side and one

for the bride’s. Although it can be expensive, do not fear. Talk to your in laws and see

what you both can do to come to a compromise. 

 4.PICTURE PERFECT! Often times, finding a venue, photographer, florist, etc., can be

quite the struggle. However, talk to people you know and can trust to find companies

that are right for your desires. Choosing a brand-new set of options can be risky because

you will not be familiar with their style of their work. Thus, negatively impacting the

outcome of your wedding. Fortunately, when booking with Verona Villa, planning services 

are included to limit the stress and make your planning process that much easier! 

 5.HAVE FUN! This is the most important part of it all. YOU are getting married. This is your

day to shine. Take a step back to take a moment to realize that you are about to spend

the rest of your life with your best friend. Enjoy it while you can because stressing about

this event will take all the excitement away. This is the moment you will remember for the

rest of your life... so make it a good one.